IAC - IRTAC
International Conference
"Counseling
Children and Youth at the Edge of Third Millenium" Bratislava, Slovakia, August, 24-27,
1999, Conference Center "SUZA"
The growth and development group
Branka Dadasovic, B.A.
psychologist, Social Work Center, Marita and counselling department, Skopje,
Republic of Macedonia; Miodrag Dadasovic, B.A. psychologist, National and
University Library "St.Kliment Ohridski", Skopje, Republic of Macedonia
This work came up from
our experience in work with dysfunctional families, partners divorcing
families, families with problems
of alcoholism, drugs, as well as work with children and adolescents of
such families. Divorcing cause losing of the primary family role, children
lose one parent. Divorce leads to stress decreases family power for cohesion
and adaptation that stops family and children development. That leads to
low level of self-respect resulting with losing of security feeling and
self-identity.
Adolescence is tempestuous for all
the family especially for the adolescent. Aiming to help to adolescents
and their families a program was made for group work with teenager adolescents.
Group consists of 15 adolescents on age from 14 till 18 years.
Program methodology was established
through creative workshops in their reference group with helping to reach
the answers to their development phase problems of cognitive, emotional
and behavioral character.
Program aims:
Developing consciousness for their rights
Acceptance and adaptation on anatomic
and physiologic changes with their sex role differentiation
Acceptance of self and social attitudes
Building relations to parents and the
authorities
Self emotions development consciousness
Building nonviolent ways of communication
as well as conflict resolution
Self initiation of models and strategies,
stress meeting and resilience developing
Abuse prevention
Developing humanization between sexes
Strengthening individualization processes
This work have aims to form complete
identity (personal self, sex self, social self, working self).
During 16 workshops
group have reached the aims and develop in-group for self-development.
This 15 teenagers spreads the net for group work with their palls so that
300 adolescents pass through this program.
This work came up from our experience
in work with dysfunctional families, partners divorcing families, families
with problems of alcoholism, drugs, as well as work with children and adolescents
of such families. Divorcing cause losing of the primary family role, children
lose one parent. Divorce leads to stress decreases family power for cohesion
and adaptation that stops family and children development. That leads to
low level of self-respect resulting with losing of security feeling and
self-identity.
One parent loosing (divorce, death,
and separation) leads to separation crises, sadness and process of grief
within the children. It’s very hard to go through these processes in the
phase of adolescence, when a young man faces with problems of self-growth
and development. All family conditions reflects within the maturation process
in adolescents, his individualization, so he could show some emotional
problems such as identity crises, over somatic disturbances, or addiction
disorders.
Helping adolescents in this hard development
life period, complicated in the same time with family system braking (divorce,
separation, and death) was the aim of this Work Program.
The Program method is group intervention
and therapies in form of workshops with adolescents, oriented to influent
on inter and intro psychical stoppage originated in development crisis.
Specific Program aims is:
Self consciousness of their own rights
development and recovering how to make it out
Taking and adaptation of physiological
and anatomical changes with differentiation of sex roles
Development of sensitivity for self needs
and their follow up
Internalization of self social attitudes
Building of self relation to their parents
and to authorities
Strengthening the individualization processes
Forming the complete self identity
Development of the self consciousness
for their own emotions and their expression modality development
Building of non violent model of communication
Ways of conflict resolutions
Initiation of self model and strategy
development for facing with stress
Resiliency development (model of changes)
Prevention of addiction diseases
Humanization relations between the sexes
with accepting self sex identity
Systemic approach was used as a method
of work and referent frame accompanied with few techniques: biblio therapy,
gestalt therapy, puppet therapy, role
play, value explanation, problem solving, as well as with emotion vocabulary,
draw, color and movement expression, water fantasies and others.
A genogram was prepared for every
member at the beginning of the Program. As a separate technique in the
work with adolescents for discovering their coping as well as modalities
for facing the stress, SIX PIECES STORY techniques was used based on BASIC
pH (Believe, Affective, Social, Imaginative, Cognitive and Physical).
This techniques, conducted in play
context of the group, initiates individual resources of imaginative, value,
affective, physical and social aspects of their personalities.
The group was consisted of 15 adolescents
on age of 14 till 18 years. The group was completely heterogeneous but
balanced on intellectual and cognitive level. All group participants have
had developmental problems as well as family problems (7 adolescents came
from divorced parents families and live with their mothers, 4 adolescents
have their father died and one with her mother died, three adolescents
live with their grandmothers even their parents are alive (remarried parents).
This talks about the added stress accumulation within these adolescents.
General characteristic of this group
is disrupted family system.
The Workshops was conducted through
play context exchange with aim to find new cognitive, emotional and behavioral
answers on crises in which they are posited.
The Program was developed in four
months period, consisted of 16 workshops. The Workshops was methodological
prepared and structured in advance with clear aims and tasks. They were
conducted once a week in two hours duration.
Evaluation of the Program is in form
of description because of the experimental nature of the Program. At the
beginning every adolescent has filled out input questionnaire and output
questionnaire at the end of the Program. Questionnaires were related on
the nature of the adolescent problems and their expectations for the resolution
way. Output questionnaire shows how were their expectations fulfilled.
The group shows great satisfaction
of this kind of work participation.
Six pieces story was given as well
at the beginning as well at the end of the Program where could be detected
coping mechanisms, which were very low and cramped at the beginning (two
or three copings were used only). Six pieces story given at the end shows
bigger stress facing modality repertoire. Almost all modalities were used
which shows their relatively rapid crisis overcoming and strengthening
their resiliency.
After four months work, all adolescents
shows better interaction degree, spontaneous and self identity accepting.
Our and intention of the group is
to proceed with the group work. The second phase is that every group member
has to form their own group in their environment. This network will spread
in their local communities which perform the intention to help the youth
in this very sensitive, beauty and hard life period.